Where do I go to figure this stuff out?

Now I will freely admit that I've only read two of DC's "New 52" so far and they've both been Red Hood and the Outlaws. Because I am shameless and I like all three characters, and I'm curious. Otherwise, waiting for the trade. And, you know, sneaking a peek at spoilers and reviews here and there.

But I have a few questions anyway.

Did Kyle Rayner still used to go out with Donna Troy?

Did Starfire still spend all that time hanging out with Animal Man and his family?

How about the events of Countdown? In? Out?

How about Catwoman's baby?

Roy in RHatO is definitely different; I'm wondering whether there are plans down the road to bring back Lian in order to redo that whole "fatherhood turns Roy into a better man" thing.

One thing that makes me sad is the whole "Earth folks don't trust aliens" thing. Because that was actually one thing I enjoyed about the DC universe--that the people were kind of open to that sort of thing.